Teen Suicide
by Richard O'Connor, Ph.D.

In the past 25 years, while the general incidence of suicide has decreased, the rate for those between 15 and 24 has tripled. It is generally considered to be the second or third most common cause of death among adolescents, even though it is seriously underreported.

No one has advanced a good theory explaining why teens are taking their own lives in greater numbers, but it's important for everyone to be aware of the problem.

A recent article by Jane Brody in The New York Times summarized research describing the major risk factors of suicide among young people:


Depression

Depression is often not recognized. In younger children and in adolescent boys, it may seem that the child is simply angry or sullen.

If this lasts more than a week or so with no relief, and if there are other signs of depression -- changes in appetite, activity level, sleep pattern; loss of interest in activities that normally give pleasure; social withdrawal; thoughts of death or punishment -- it should be taken seriously.

Signs of developing depression in teens include:
Unhappiness
Gradual withdrawal into helplessness and apathy
Isolated behavior
Drop in school performance
Loss of interest in activities that formerly were sources of enjoyment
Feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, helplessness
Fatigue or lack of energy or motivation
Change in sleep habits
Change in eating habits
Self-neglect
Preoccupation with sad thoughts or death
Loss of concentration
Increase in physical complaints
Sudden outbursts of temper
Reckless or dangerous behavior
Increased drug or alcohol abuse
Irritability; restlessness
Parents are bound to have trouble understanding a depressed teen's confusing signals; after all, who does not want to think of their child as happy and confident. But parents must pay attention to serious depression; the risks are too great if they don't.


Substance abuse

Sometimes teens try alcohol or other drugs to relieve depression. Unfortunately the drugs themselves have a depressant effect, and lower inhibitions against self-injurious behavior. Some young people who have never expressed a suicidal thought have taken their own lives when they got drunk to ease the pain of a disappointment or loss. But they only felt worse while drunk, and committed a rash, impulsive act which they wouldn't have done sober.


Behavioral problems

Getting in trouble in school or with the law, fighting with parents, and other behavioral problems are the third risk factor for suicide. We tend to think of potential suicides as sensitive, shy people who are overwhelmed by life. We don't see the cocky, obnoxious adolescent as potentially self-destructive, even though his behavior -- continually getting in trouble, keeping the world at arm's length -- has exactly that effect.

I recently re-read The Catcher in the Rye and was amazed to see Holden Caulfield, whom I had so identified myself with, from my now-adult perspective. Though I still felt sympathetic, I was struck by how depressed and self-destructive his behavior seemed.


Availability of a gun

This makes the consequences of an impulsive act much more lethal. Surprisingly, even when a child has made one attempt, parents often fail to remove guns from the home. How many fatal, impulsive decisions have been aided by the presence of a handgun in the home?

If you have a gun in your home, you are FIVE times more likely to have a suicide in your house than homes without a gun.

It is also important to limit the person's access to large amounts of medication, or other lethal means of committing suicide.


Previous attempts

Half of all children who have made one suicide attempt will make another, sometimes as many as two a year until they succeed. The majority of suicide attempts are expressions of extreme distress and not just harmless bids for attention.


Other Factors

Other factors include a family history of depression or substance abuse, and a recent traumatic event.

Some children who take their own lives are indeed the opposite of the rebellious teen. They are anxious, insecure kids who have a desperate desire to be liked, to fit in, to do well. Their expectations are so high that they demand too much of themselves, so are condemned to constant disappointment.

A traumatic event, which can seem minor viewed from an adult perspective, is enough to push them over the edge into a severe depression. Being jilted, failing a test, getting into an accident -- they have the sense that their life is a delicate balance, and one failure or disappointment seems to threaten the whole house of cards.


Get Help

No talk of suicide should be taken lightly. It indicates the need for immediate professional help. Any suicidal gesture, no matter how "harmless" it seems, demands immediate professional attention.

Risk getting involved. If you suspect suicidal thoughts or behavior, ask the teen directly if she or he is considering suicide. Don't avoid the subject or wait for the teen to come to you.

Be alert to the teen's feelings. The severity of the problem should be judged from the teen's perception, not by adult standards. If a teen perceives something as a problem, it is a problem for him or her.

Never agree to keep the discussion of suicide with a teen a secret. Agree to give help and support in getting professional help.


Imminent danger signs include:
Talking about death and wanting to die
Suicidal thoughts, plans, or fantasies
Previous suicide attempts
Friends who have attempted suicide
Giving away personal possessions
Telling a friend about suicidal plans
Writing a note
Parents and friends should not hesitate to get help and should never leave a suicidal person alone.


Prevent Suicide

Adults can help prevent suicide by fostering open, honest communication with teens. If a teen trusts you enough to come to you with a problem, take time to listen immediately. Delay may only fuel feelings of doom in the teen.

The following strategies may be helpful when dealing with teens and suicide:
Talk about suicide in an open manner. Teens need to be given a chance to discuss suicide by voicing their thoughts and opinions. Candid discussion is important particularly when a teen suicide has occurred in a community.
Let young people know about hotline telephone numbers and crisis intervention services that are accessible locally.
Model healthy behavior and positive problem-solving approaches. Adults can be models for young people by dealing with their own stress in a constructive manner.
Use television shows, films, newspaper articles and other media as a trigger for a discussion of effective ways to deal with stress and depression.
Provide opportunities for group support. Teens sharing problems with other teens who help find solutions can be beneficial.
Adults need to take the possibility of teen suicide seriously even if their community has not experienced one. Teen depression and thoughts of suicide are more common than many adults assume and there are as many as 50 to 100 suicide attempts for every young person who actually takes his or her own life.

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